Friday, September 13, 2013

NEW YORK – Part 1

I have a confession to make.

I am an adrenalin junkie.

That in itself is unremarkable, however, combine that with my abject fear (actually it's terror) of heights and my love of cultural travel (not your 2 week package holiday in Majorca eating fish and chips) and you may be able to start seeing my problem. PLANES!

Now I am not one to allow my fears to stop me doing what, or going where, my heart desires. You simply need to see my photos from Snowdon (walked up and back down) or from Tryfan to know this. I cannot convey in a blog the intense terror that ran through my body doing these walks, or recall how many times by body froze – to paralysed with fear to continue. I cannot tell you how I eventually managed to talk myself round in to continuing. Or the intensity of the pure relief as we completed the walks and returned to bottom, which caused me to sag to the ground sobbing.


Until 27th August 2013 I had never been out of Europe. The thought of a long haul flight was unbearable, plus why would I want to go “State-side”? There was nothing there I couldn't find on a driving holiday across Europe, or if I must – a short haul flight, which involved sobbing the whole flight.

But then, suddenly, something extremely appealing was in the US, in fact in New York. Right then New York was exactly where I wanted to be.

Excuse Me! …


On 27th August 2013 I left my home and travelled to Heathrow. Now my “coping strategy” for my short haul flights was not to think about it. Which works right up until you are in the departure lounge, then you are face-to-face with your fear. So I sat there, bolt upright in my little plastic chair, trembling all over, with my fellow passengers eyeing me with suspicion. The boarding time comes and goes, my trembling increases -

  • “Why aren't they boarding us?”
  •  “Why are they all just stood there chatting?”

Then the voice comes over the tannoy “Sorry for the delay. We are carrying out additional security checks on the plane.” …... Wha!!!!???

  • There is something wrong with the plane? 
  • Had there been a threat detected? 
  • Was there an issue with the battery?
  • Had the engine covers come off? 

I texted my loved ones to tell them all I loved them (seriously, I did!)

The thoughts that race through the terrified traveller's mind upon hearing this are inexhaustible. I admit that if it hadn't of been for my excellent reason for travelling to New York I would have got back on the bus and gone home right there and then.

As it turned out the cleaning and checking crew were short staffed. Rather than it taking 10 people one hour to carry out the work, it took 5 people two hours. I know this news may have angered other passengers, but a message of;

"Ladies and gentlemen - there will be a delay in boarding due to staff shortages on the cleaning and checking crew"

Would have been far more preferable to me than;

“Sorry for the delay. We are carrying out additional security checks on the plane.”

An hour later than scheduled, the staff board a rather shaken, tear soaked passenger with the promise that the cabin crew would keep an eye on me. As good to their word, they did. Eventually, tired from the early start, the raw emotion, and the sobbing, I fell asleep. I completely missed the food, which given the experience returning to the UK, I was glad I did. The plane landed in it's usual fashion, with the non-religious passenger gripping the seat tightly, praying to which ever god that was listening, that the plane would not only touchdown but stop without hitting the building. I finally released my grip, stopped praying and opened my eyes when the plane stopped. I'd done it! I had flown across the Atlantic and I was now in New York. Again I texted my loved ones to tell them I had landed safely.

… And breathe! 


Next was the security to get in to the USA - which was easier than I anticipated. I had no stamp in my passport from anywhere, you no longer get them travelling through Europe as a European citizen. The bemused security guard asked if I had ever been to the US - “No, my first time out of Europe” I said cheerfully – the adrenalin rush was now kicking in. I cleared security and retrieved my bags. Now I needed a taxi … sorry … cab. I headed for the exit doors and as they parted there stood my reason for flying long haul – the man I love – a wonderful surprise end to my flight. (I do wonder how long it took his ribs to recover from the hug).

The departure delay, and the entire flight, and that niggling reminder that “you have to do it all again” was wholeheartedly worth it. Would I fly long haul again? If my man was with me, or waiting for me at my destination? Yes, I would.

Awww … nice blog … but aren't you a photographer?


I know – this is supposed to be a photographer's blog, and not some personal “Dear Diary”, but this is all in context I promise. Without the reason for the flight I would not have travelled to New York, and therefore, not challenged myself to take an alternative view of those iconic landmarks. You can't pre-prep for a travel shoot in New York if you have never been there before. We all have preconceptions - good or bad - in both cases these are likely to be completely wrong.

For a photographer, and most other people, New York is iconic. From “that" photo of Grand Central Station to the views of the city from the Empire State Building it has “all been done before”, so what do you do?


I discovered that the first ever trip you ever make to New York you should consider “a reccy”, because it appeals to each person in a different way, and you won't know this until you get there. The lighting in such a built up city is also different, it takes time to adapt, even for a seasoned pro. I was thrilled to see so many Art Deco buildings. In fact the General Electric building was very prominent from the hotel we were in. You will see things you didn't expect to see, and discover that landmarks don't look as they do in the photos; mainly due to the changing cityscape.


The hunt for Strawberry Fields in Central Park actually took 2 journeys. The park isn't signposted internally and there is very little in the way of maps in the park. I eventually learned to use google maps on my phone while in the hotel to plan my day and route, saved it and then referred to it (Data Roaming turned off) as required. This does require some map reading and orienteering skills.


Also – don't forget the hidden gems of New York, such as the Unisphere and New York Pavillion in Flushing Meadows (Men in Black I), Baseball!! (you have to attend at least one baseball game. WARNING FOR VEGGIES OR THOSE WHO DON'T EAT RED MEAT: Only the nachos can be served without meat, and you'll get a funny look when you ask for that. It's all red meat at a baseball game).


For those who like their architecture make sure you go to the churches scattered across the city. Locals will tell you about St Patrick's, but this can be very busy and shoot opportunities limited. I chose to look elsewhere and was completely blown away by St Vincent's, and St Thomas's has an incredible backdrop to the alter. Be aware that photographs can only be taken at certain times of the day. Check out their websites and plan accordingly.


Don't be worried about New York rain ruining your plans. I sat for an hour under some scaffolding waiting for the rain to pass and got some stunning images of New Yorkers getting on with their day – roll with it.


What did I discover?

Like all travel it should be personal. Throw away the guide books, feel the place you are visiting, live it, breathe it. The phrase “Travel broadens the mind” was not simply conjured out of thin air. I had preconceived ideas about New York; some of those ideas were borne out, others were completely smashed. On the day I landed, after dropping my bags at the hotel, I hit the streets to get my bearings, get a feel for the layout … and track down food! I had no guide book and no plan – the best way I know to get a feel for where I am.

What I discovered was …

  • New York is not all chrome and steel, there is beauty, history and culture there.
  • All New Yorkers are not aggressive; I had some lovely chats to people who weren't trying to sell me anything, or provide a service.


To be fair the only thing I struggled with was the food, but this is what happens when you don't eat red meat, you don't have an overly sweet-tooth, you love a variety of fresh fruit and veg, and you decide to travel to New York … but that's another story .. Next project - “A Foodie In New York”?

Monday, May 20, 2013

Are we becoming Social Media Blind?

I recently came up with a new idea for supporting elderly and vulnerable people in their own homes. I patented the idea, then contacted a major manufacturer, who signed me on the spot.

Job done - right?

Wrong!

Patenting an idea, arranging agreements with manufactures, etc. all come at a high cost, most of which I covered with my savings (bye, bye house and car), but I was still £1200 short. Banks don't lend such small sums to businesses, not even start-ups. I'm either too young or too old for the vast majority of grant/loan schemes set up by the government.

So now what?

Crowdfunding


Crowdfunding is simple. It allows friends, family or even complete strangers to donate or invest, and there are no upper or lower limits. It connects in to every avenue of social media allowing you to reach every corner of your network - and beyond.

I looked at my immediate network and discovered I have 324 connections. That's £3.71 per person.

If someone I knew, who I knew well, came to me and said - "I have an idea which will completely change the way we care for people. I already have a major global manufacturer involved. I have invested over £6000 of my own money, but I just need a further £1200 to finish. You can help by donating/investing £3.71, would you be interested?" My answer would be "Yes" - after all what's £3.71 now? A cup of coffee? A small lunch at my desk?

I thought that the vast majority of people in my network would know me well enough and would be more than willing to support this idea. So I created my account on GoFundMe. I then set about publicising this on Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn.

 324 people were given the link http://www.gofundme.com/2yl3w4.

The stats for the first 2 days break down as follows;

41 people have viewed the page
19 people have shared the page on Facebook
8 people have shared on Twitter
2 people have donated
0 have come via LinkedIn

So what happened?

TMI (That's Too Much Information to the rest of us)


Do we no longer actually read social media posts? Do we just benignly repost, retweet, pass on without thinking? Without considering why this information was shared with us? Are we so bombarded with jokes, pictures of cute cats, videos of little darlings at their recital, sales in our favourite stores, memes, and game requests etc. that all information is superfluous?

My invention was borne out of concern that we ignore the generation that went before us, that paved the way, loved and nurtured us. What has become more apparent, and more concerning, is that we are not just ignoring our elderly relatives, but we are ignoring each other - regardless of age.

Social Media was an idea to bring us together, and in may ways it does. How would I be able to talk to my sisters on such a regular basis? Or know how my cousins are? But the flip side to that is the bombardment of irrelevant information constantly filling our "News-feeds", to the point where we completely miss something which would interest us. After all how many times have you either written or seen written "How did I miss this?" on someone's post days/weeks/months after it was posted?

I too am occasionally guilty of posting/reposting jokes and pictures of cute animals, but I do try to think "how is this relevant?". "What am I trying to say?". "Has this been seen everywhere already?"

Like supporting our elderly relatives, to get ourselves out of this rut requires consideration. We need to consider before we post. We need to post smartly and more over, we need to take time for each other.

May be it wouldn't have increased the donations/investments, but it may have increased the traffic to the site. It may have increased the number of people sharing the link and instead of having a potential 324 people donating £3.71 there would have been 648 donating £1.85, or 1200 people donating £1.

This idea did not come about because I wanted to be rich, this idea came about because somebody needed it, and nobody was making it. I am no different to anyone else supporting their family.

Put it this way - if it was your mum or dad this information would end up helping - would you walk past without at least reading?